己婚外國人向我表白,我該怎麼辦? - 旅遊

By Caitlin
at 2006-05-29T00:00

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我和朋友去國外自助旅行時,遇到了一位外國人
我們互相留了e-mail, 一直通信至今
一開始他有表明他喜歡我
因為他我也開始玩起flickr
開始有他的朋友和我聊天
因為在同樣都在台灣的我們就開始每天交流相片
(ps.他們都是專業攝影師)
某天他卻來信說忌妒他朋友和我的關係
變開始向我猛烈追求
每天都是甜言蜜語的信件
也說好要來台灣找我了
但我由他的照片和留言中,早就知道他是己婚的
但又不由自主的喜歡上他
那天我發了封mail向他說
我知道他己經結婚,我無法介入他的婚姻
(因為我自己知道他們只是想找個免費的模特兒吧)
結果他發來了這封信
我真不知怎麼回他,請大家幫幫我吧~(ps.我英文超破的)
I don\'t know if you like me.
I am I foolish?
You don\'t need to destroy anything.
Please help me understand.
Update:
嗯,以上那就是全部信件的內容囉~
我有他說我很抱歉我破壞掉了我和他之間的關係
因為我點破了他己婚的事實~(我想他應該以為我不知道他己婚吧,還是外國人可以接受己婚再交個小女朋友,真搞不懂他們~鳴)
Update 2:
Dear sillykitten ~
謝謝您的大力相助
但我英文真的很爛,可以請您幫我翻成中文嗎?
也謝謝大家的支持哦!
我真的是很欣賞他的才華~
但己婚雙魚座男人是我不敢去跨越的那條界線~
且他們朋友二人又為我而翻臉,現在連朋友也當不成囉~
原來外國人不是像他們外表那樣友善的
也是有心機的......好無奈哦~(哭泣中)

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By Thomas
at 2006-06-01T00:03

叫他***~Get to hell!!!
爛男人~
你可以回:
I appreciated you before, cause of your talent and passion.
But you didn't tell me the truth, I think it shouldn't be a secret about your situation.
You said I don't need to destroy everything,but I tnink maybe, that's your fault.
It's "you" destroyed everything!!
I don't know why you write me so much sweet words and honeyed phrases,
I felt so touched before, but now I feel sarrow......
I'm a honest girl, I can't accept this kind of pursue (sorry, I'm not sure if you're pursuing me),but if you wanna be a friend of mine, please be honest to me!
I can be a part-time model for my friends, but I can't have a love affair with my "friends",
you know?
Hope you can understand.
your sincerely friend

By Quintina
at 2006-06-02T01:31

恩，沒錯！和外過人談戀愛真的要有相當的勇氣，向這種不要臉的人...千萬不要被騙了，他們都是當下很認真的隨便說說....

By Wallis
at 2006-05-30T03:56

個人居留國外多年
在此誠心提醒台灣女生們: 天下烏鴉一樣黑
甜言蜜語外國人毫不輸我們
白人表裡不一的功夫更是利害
說起謊言滔滔不絕也不會臉紅
已婚男人還在打人家注意
光這點就夠了其他不用知道
這種**直接淘汰即可
也不用寫信給他了
天下沒有免費的午餐
不管他是黃皮膚還是白皮膚
內涵還是最重要
千萬別讓一個人的國籍外表以及笑容給騙了

By Dinah
at 2006-06-01T03:33

hey lady,,,keep you chin up ok,,,it's not a big deal....trust me, he can live well without you!! 別管他啦, 別把他看太重,對老外不必要客氣,最重要就是跟他 straighforward, that's it,,,,,,直接一點,不需要跟他講因為XXXXX所以XXXXXX!!!! 他們對接受拒絕是非常 take easy的, 老外就是這樣, 他有膽隨口說他喜歡你,相對的他也很能接受異性的拒絕! 這種事情對他們來說沒什麼,so,,千萬別讓他们覺得 Makeout with Chinese Girls just like eating a piece of cake....alright??
如果喜歡就跟他講(我是絕對建議 absoultely "NO",不要)但結果自行負責, No pitty for ya at all(當他拋棄你時)!!!!
如果不要just tell him like following:
a.(如果對方客氣你就客氣回答)
It's too flattering for me to accept your feeling for me so I decide "not to" accept the feeling from you! You got a family, please be a responsible husband!! I respect you as a friend and I want to make this clear with you ok!!
b.(如果對方再如此纏你就回答)
Hey, can you get over with this!! Come on, stop playing this "cheating-like" game and be an grown up man!!
雖然再那求學了10多年,跟老外相處久了,觀念還是有些不同,,看到很多去遊學的東方人常常都會被騙,我也很無能為力, 你有機會問問一些"香蕉"(外皮是黃色,裡面肉(思想)是白色),他們就會告訴妳的!!!希望對你有幫助,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

By Ina
at 2006-06-02T08:05

沒錯沒錯！拒絕他！
外國人最會來甜言蜜語這一套，不要上當啊！自己也有切身之痛。。。

By Barb Cronin
at 2006-05-30T14:01

i agree wtih sillykitten !!

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at 2006-06-02T10:28

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By Callum
at 2006-05-29T21:46

沒錯，大力給他拒絕下去，相信世界上還有很多單身好人的我

己婚外國人向我表白,我該怎麼辦? - 旅遊

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